Archive for the ‘Fathers’ Category

Sick of the bloody kids? You’re doing it wrong

Kathleen    April 30th, 2012    No Comments »    children, Divorce, families, Fathers, Work      

Sam de Brito, Sydney Morning Herald, 29 April 2012

YOU have to wonder if the ”bloody kids” have replaced ”the missus” as the perceived ball and chain around the modern man’s neck.

Both are topics of conversation I find older guys will use to establish a rapport with a stranger – particularly in client meetings, at conferences and work functions.

Sport might also get a mention and, perhaps, commentary on the attractiveness of whatever woman is nearby but once these subjects are exhausted it’s fascinating how often men will riff on the onerous nature of parenthood, and ”how you’ve lost the next 20 years of your life”.


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Fathers are not babysitters

Kathleen    June 19th, 2011    No Comments »    children, Divorce, families, Fathers, Parenting      

The lament you often hear from non-residential parents is that they want to see their children more, while residential parents often say they want the other parent to see their children more.

If this is the case, you have to wonder why it doesn’t happen.


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Is a father worth $50m?

Kathleen    April 19th, 2011    No Comments »    Fathers      

Sole Parents’ Union has asked the question before on what makes a father.

Is it a social relationship, a biological one, or is your father the person who is married to your mother?

There’s a case going on in the US now, where a woman has filed a suit in New York seeking that the name of her father be removed from her birth certificate.


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What makes a father?

Kathleen    February 16th, 2011    No Comments »    Child Support, Divorce, Fathers      

Women have long grappled with the question “is biology destiny”, and now it seems it’s men’s turn.

Can you be a father if you don’t have a biological connection to a child?


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Are you a good mother?

admin    October 7th, 2010    No Comments »    Fathers, Mothers, Parenting    , ,   

When it comes to raising kids, it seems the old saying applies “you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t”. 


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